My daughter struggled with drug addiction from the time she was 13yo until she was 40yo; it wasn’t until I let her hit bottom and stopped rescuing her that she actually got help. I just found out my husband had two affairs and says it’s my fault; when do I start to trust him again? How do I help my adult daughter who experienced trauma that has left her having panic attacks? I live in my adult children’s home and pay their mortgage; how do I approach them about their vaping and marijuana use?