The man I’m dating believes you must speak in tongues to be saved; is that true? My husband of 36yrs has had emotional affairs and thinks a mediocre marriage is okay; time to leave? How do I help my 44yo addicted and psychotic son who says vile things to me on texts? He left 3yrs ago and I don’t know where he is. My husband continues a cycle of on-again, off-again porn use when he is stressed; how do I approach him?