Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about checking out through disassociation to escape from hard things, and the downside. How do I help and support my bitter husband who spent over 3yrs in prison after being falsely accused of aggravated sexual assault? My husband comes home from work each day and drinks shots of whiskey and smokes marijuana. What’s the appropriate response after my 21yo daughter felt violated when I checked her car for a spare tire?