What can I do about my husband who is still in contact with the woman he had an affair with 5yrs ago? How can I be a good Christian wife and not feel left out? My stepdaughter left me out of her family wedding pictures. Should I tell my sister that I found out her son raped my son when they were kids? How do I talk to my menopausal wife about her not having sex with me? She’s more of a roommate than a spouse.