After 23yrs of a rough marriage, what can my husband and I do to have a great marriage? I recently started watching a church on Facebook and used a male profile to hide my identity; however, the pastor’s wife got upset at me when she found out I was a woman. What do we say to our 7yo grandson about suicide? He just learned he had an uncle who passed away and sleeps with his picture. My wife is very frustrated that I’m not able to perform sexually; what’s your advice?