Dr. Alice discusses how to repair broken relationships. After my husband passed away, I keep finding things like a card from his secret emotional affair saying she loved him; how do I handle this? I had a child with a woman I was involved with. What are your thoughts on reaching out to an ex to apologize? I’m an interior designer and have taken a sabbatical from work; at 57yo should I go back to a work environment that steals my joy or retire?