Marc discusses the amount of credibility to give to your feelings. How do we love our 22yo daughter who came out as a lesbian and now has a girlfriend? My husband was unfaithful 10yrs ago, is in recovery, and I attended Restore; what else can I do? When do I give tough love to my daughter who lost two of her kids after a fight with her current husband, and I stepped in to care for their baby? Should we leave our 31yo daughter alone? She has PTSD and recently screamed at us and called us horrible names. My 96yo mother has Alzheimer’s; do we let her know that her loving aunt passed away?