What can I do if my adult children have blocked me? I left when they were teens because I thought their dad would kill me. I wasn’t really there for my kids emotionally. Is stepping in to help with their kids the best thing I can do for them as adults? My 33yo son is deep in the depths of alcoholism and has an 8yo son; how do I help him? Shall I speak to the mother of my grandchildren about them watching things like Squid Game and dancing inappropriately? My son doesn’t want me to.