My family hurt me so much; what can I do to not feel so fragmented inside when I am in stressful situations? What can I do if I have a long history of depression, anxiety, and I fear being taken advantage of? I have sickle cell anemia and am unable to work, but my mother-in-law calls me lazy; is it OK if I just stop talking to her? Is there a timeframe for how long to remain separated from my husband? When is it time to get marital therapy?