Marc discusses the cycle of enabling and explains the difference between supporting a person and rescuing them. When I’ve asked to see my grandkids, my daughter-in-law says they are busy and don’t have time for me; how do I navigate this with her? My 21yo son is married and has a 2yo daughter; what kind of help does he need to be a healthy father and husband if he loses his temper? My 28yo son is on the autism spectrum and lives with my ex-husband; how do we set a boundary if he gets angry and leaves? I’ve been sober from porn for a year, but now I have feelings of shame and regret and suicidal thoughts.