My adult stepchildren hold grudges, and I’m the opposite of their mother; how do we become a family? Last Christmas my oldest daughter accidentally passed away from drugs. Do people with drug addiction go to heaven? How do I help my 23yo son who is addicted to cocaine and alcohol? What kind of resources do you have to offer? I’m worried for my newborn grandchild because my son’s brother-in-law just married a man. How can I approach his mother-in-law who paid for the wedding?