What help is there for my brother who is a meth addict, paraplegic, and was just beaten up? Our daughter-in-law is slitting her wrists and self-diagnosed herself with OCD, panic attacks, and anxiety disorder. How can I maintain a relationship with my 25yo granddaughter who is addicted to meth and lives with her boyfriend in a basement? What steps can I take to improve relationships as a 84yo avoider?