My wife has a problem with clutter and it has been a cause for arguments. What should we do? I don’t want a divorce from my separated husband, but I need some things to change in order to move forward in our marriage. I was molested as a child. I’m married and a Christian, but my life feels upside down. What is my first step in healing? My separated husband denies he is still watching porn and cheating on me. What is my next step?