Dr. Alice shares steps to help you face your shortcomings to help prevent getting cancelled by those in your life. I am following up on grieving the loss of my adult son who was an addict; should I be more upset? What is the best way to love my daughter in a polyamorous relationship? Do I need my husband to forgive me in order to be released from this marriage? My live-in girlfriend of 7yrs is having trust issues and thinks I’m having an affair.