My pastor performed a marriage ceremony for my sister, but they never got legally married. Should I talk to my pastor? I came out of the gay lifestyle 20yrs ago and my ex demands I see her when she comes back on furlough from being a missionary. What can I do to lessen my extreme anxiety over generational suicide? My father and sibling committed suicide, and my adult son is at a high risk. How long should I wait before doing EMDR? I’ve been in therapy for chronic pain for over 2yrs.