What are the next steps to help my father with his severe anger issues? And how do I cope with him? I’ve called before, and you really helped my marriage! I want to be a great dad, but how do I overcome growing up with a lack of attention and trauma? I’m living with my daughter and her significant other; how do I respond to him when he doesn’t like things I do around the house? How do I not accept violence from my 14yo autistic son and respect my husband who doesn’t discipline him appropriately?