What is the best way to develop empathy in my 14yo son? He is pressuring a 12yo girl to have sex. I lost my job after a heart attack caused a brain injury 3yrs ago; what can I do to connect with my 17yo daughter before she leaves home? The guy I used to date is my gym coach and is harassing me in public; should I pursue legal action? Is self-righteousness ingrained in us as Christians? In church we focus on the sins of others, but not in AA.