Does the Bible say a couple in their second marriage should divorce each other and go back to their first spouse? I was a latchkey kid, and my husband being gone for his job has triggered me; why didn’t I understand I had abandonment issues before now? I’ve been married 10yrs, and my husband told me he didn’t want to be married and then left. I feel so embarrassed. My 14yo son acted out sexually with another boy at school; is it normal at his age?