I was emotionally and physically abused by my mom as a child and abandoned by my dad; what do I do next? I’m emotionally distant from my wife after telling her I looked at porn; is this normal? What’s our role as parents if our daughter’s fiancé has a porn addiction and they’re still going to get married? Is it OK to keep hoping and praying for my marriage? My husband has filed for divorce for the sixth time and has lived at his mom’s house for half of our marriage. My older brother is homeless and diabetic; should I give him temporary shelter? I want to go to Intimacy in Marriage, but my husband of 43yrs is very resistant to anything.