My daughter was molested by my brother-in-law when she was 5yo and I cut off relationship with them. How do I reconnect? What tools can I use to slow down the conversation with my husband when he responds too rapidly? When doors are closed, how do I know it is the Lord? How do we know when it’s time for a grandchild to move back in with the parents? I’ve been a widow for 2yrs after 44yrs of marriage; are there resources that can help me?