Dr. Sheri talks about the wounds of omission and the wounds of commission. Is there something else my friend can do to help her husband stop drinking? She is making plans to leave. I have been estranged from my adult daughter for the last 3yrs and have never seen my grandkids. I feel bad I had a lot of rules when she was growing up. What is my role for a sibling in assisted living who always seems very needy? I feel conflicted when I have to say no. A friend ghosted me, but later I discovered that he was actually busy caring for someone paralyzed. How do I cope with my response when I didn’t know what he was going through?