My son came out as gay 10yrs ago and stopped having anything to do with us last year. If this was your son, what would you do? How can I trust my narcissist husband to be truthful if we don’t divorce? My older son blames me for the marriage not being perfect; should I tell him his mother had an affair? My 23yo daughter is basically homeless and her heroin addiction has cost us a lot of money; is it time to walk away?