How should I tell my wife that I feel like her dad? I take responsibility for everything. The last time I saw my daughter she had me thrown in jail, and I haven’t even met my granddaughter. Now that I’m out, how can I put my granddaughter in my will? My wife hasn’t forgiven me for what I used to be, a workaholic and controlling. How do I not force her to decide if she wants to be my wife?