Do I get a divorce if my husband takes his whole paycheck and gives it to the drug dealers?I am concerned with my grandkids whose house is cluttered and their hygiene is bad; how do I talk to my son and daughter-in-law about this?What should I do if my second husband drinks and I don’t feel like I can rely on him? My first husband was abusive and also drank.My son says he’s separating from his wife of 9yrs; how do I encourage my daughter-in-law to turn to the Lord?