Dr. Sheri shares a story from her first marriage that demonstrates gaslighting and blame shifting. My 17yoson is struggling with suicidal ideation and wrote a note saying he doesn’t like hearing my husband and me arguing; what can we do? My wife’s work is damaging her physically, but it has been hard for her to let go and retire; how can I help? Although my husband is sober from porn, weed, and drinking, I don’t want to be intimate; can I get those feelings back? How do I start my healing journey after I discovered my husband was exchanging sexually explicit texts with my friend?