My husband of 16yrs has never consummated our marriage. Do I just let it go and feel that it’s how God wants it to be? The executor of my sister’s estate is my brother who is not following her will. How do I move forward? How can I help my friend who is dying from COPD? She says she believes in Jesus but doesn’t act like it. Can you explain what you meant when you said waiting on God to change a spouse won’t change them? My husband has been unfaithful several times and hasn’t changed with counseling.