What can we do for my 53yo daughter who struggles with manic depression and has had three marriages? Our pastor told a pastor friend of mine that my wife and I don’t belong in his church because our worship style is different. Where do I begin to get help if my father sexually abused me, and my mom was stuck in denial? I blame myself every day for failing my son who went to prison at 19yo, and later I was the one who found him dead.