Should I confront my wife’s therapist? Her therapist has categorized me as borderline and a narcissist without ever seeing me. I am my wife’s third husband, and I would like her to get her second marriage annulled so I can receive the sacraments, but she won’t. What can I do about my husband going into a rage and calling me every filthy name? It’s been like this since our honeymoon 7yrs ago.