I can’t get over my Bible-believing, Christian husband having a year-long affair and lying to my face about it for 14yrs. How do I protect my heart? My husband was unfaithful to me 40yrs ago, and we have a counseling appointment scheduled so he can disclose everything. What should I do to help my wife feel heard and appreciated? Everything I’ve tried doesn’t work. My husband is in law enforcement and is exposed to porn on the job; how can he overcome his own struggle with porn?