How do I deal with my brother living a homosexual lifestyle? I have little kids and don’t know how to deal with it. I get triggered by my brother and feel powerless and suicidal by what he says; what should l do? What does grace look like to my kids when my husband is a heroin addict, and I’m tired of giving ultimatums? My husband and I feel attacked when we talk about our feelings and beliefs with our adult daughter who says she’s bisexual. How should we handle it?