My husband doesn’t have a job and stays in his messy room the whole day. I’m tired of being a single parent. How do we help my daughter-in-law with her drinking problem? Yesterday she was inebriated with my 8yo grandson in the car. My grandson and his 9yo daughter with ADD live with me. She is making threats and not taking her medication. How can I win my husband back? We’ve been married for 27yrs and separated for 2yrs.