What should I do if my narcissistic wife of 42yrs is emotionally and verbally abusive? My husband is objectifying me by expecting me to do certain sexual things I don’t want to do. At what point do we separate from adult children? Our adopted daughter smokes pot, has a child, and is going down the wrong road. My daughter’s husband gave her an ultimatum to get a job, and now he wants partial separation. Is that normal?