I was adopted when I was 10yo and wasn’t close to my birth father. Now that he passed, what do I do with his ashes? When my 33yo son was young, his father was not tolerant of his ADD and anxiety. Now certain things trigger him; what can we do different? Our 26yo son is a software engineer who lives with us, and he struggles with getting a job. My husband never answers my questions and doesn’t know why he can’t be intimate; what do I do?