What should I do to help my adult daughter who was kidnapped a few years ago and keeps reliving it? Can you give me advice for my husband who is a pastor? My daughter’s friend underwent sex change surgery and wants to volunteer with children in our church. Are there any resources I can give my friend who lost her husband of 30yrs? My significant other is going through EMDR and now I’m a basket case; she gives me hope for our relationship and then ghosts me or gets angry.