What help can I get my 15yo son who asked my 5yo niece to touch him inappropriately? Do I spend too much time on my phone? It bothers my wife because I had an emotional affair online a few years ago. My 32yo son is married and transitioning to being a woman; what do I tell my grandchildren? Are there support groups for family members? What are some steps we can take to reconcile? We are separated and have both been married three times.