How do I handle my 36yo son’s mood changes as he gets older? My husband’s dying mother told him what a heartache he had been; how can I encourage him to forgive and not let deep hurt destroy him? Should I honestly tell my son what I think now that he is on the verge of a second divorce? How can I help heal my family after my adult daughter shared she was molested at 12yo by her grandfather who was also our pastor?