How do I respond to my new wife who discovered a group porn text on my phone, but I haven’t looked at porn in 4yrs? Every time I mess up, I think I’m going to get spanked because that’s what happened to me as a child. I can’t seem to turn off the news; can you give me any advice to deal with the stress? My daughter-in-law lost her brother to suicide, and I found crystals in her house; what kind of conversation do I have with her?