Dr. Jill Hubbard shares how troubles can be a precursor to change. I just lost my husband 2mos ago to liver failure because of his alcohol, and he had secretly taken out thousands of dollars of credit card debt in my name. I feel guilty and ashamed for being angry at him. What should my husband and I do if my son got angry at us after we let his wife serve him legal papers at our house? Are personality disorders and sociopaths hereditary? I wonder if that’s why my 15yo grandson gets into trouble.