A 40yo man, who is like our adopted son, went to prison for child abuse. Am I being too harsh to tell him I’ll cut off contact with him if he doesn’t make progress? My ex-girlfriend blocked me because I asked her if she lied about a miscarriage since she’s lied in the past. What can I do? I’m a 75yo former sex offender who is now free because I fear God. My 32yo niece and her son live in a house I inherited; how do I get her to do what I ask?