I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, and my counselor says I need someone else more specialized in this field. My sister was diagnosed with breast cancer 5yrs ago and stopped treatment because she believes she is healed; what should I do? I’ve been divorced for 7yrs but haven’t had a relationship because I see too many red flags in the men I meet. Do I have healthy boundaries or am I too afraid? I’m 72yo and on Mother’s Day, my narcissistic son yelled and spit on me. Am I correct to tell him not to come back? What is the right thing for me to do if my adult sons are estranged from me because of my alcoholic husband who has been gone for 6yrs?