Chris Williams describes what a benevolent witness is and compares it to hosting. My 28yo son wants to lie about his address to get a job; how can I connect with him so he won’t pull back when I give him advice? I have depression and my 52yo daughter with MS lives with us; she has memory loss and isn’t taking care of herself. I don’t know what to do. What kind of boundaries should my husband put in place if he works with his son, but his son refuses to let us see the grandchildren?