Dr. Jill discusses how self-control is one of the hardest fruits of the spirit to develop.Is it lying or gaslighting if my friend tells me my experience is not what I say it is? My dad wasn’t safe, and I wonder if my friend isn’t safe either.How can I forgive myself for failing to seek help that may have prevented harm to my family and myself?How do I get through separation anxiety from my young kids who are with their father in Nigeria? Finances won’t allow me to join them until Fall.