What can I do if my husband of 11yrs punches the wall above me and I have to walk on eggshells around him? How do I have a conversation with my husband about his emotional affairs, not continuing in counseling, and not showing any remorse? How can I take care of myself without enabling my angry husband? I am disabled and in a wheelchair. Am I disappointing God by respecting my son’s wishes? He married an unbeliever and told us we can’t say anything about our faith to our grandkids.