Why does my smart, talented 11yo granddaughter curl up in a ball and sob? What can we do to help her? Am I doing the right thing in getting a divorce? He thinks I don’t care that I had an affair, but he won’t go to counseling with me. What is the difference between depression and burnout? My friend says she feels like a roommate in her marriage and wants to be single like me; how can I advise her?