JJ discusses planting in the light matters so you can bear more fruit. My son and his family live with us, and my daughter-in-law starts drinking from the moment she gets home until bed; how can I have a better relationship with her? My nephew just got out of prison for drugs and theft, and I asked my family not to let him know where I live. Does that sound like an unchristian thing to ask? How can my daughter have a new start? She has kids and was arrested for meth charges. What should I do if my wife is verbally and physically abusive?