Dr. Jim talks about the magic five to one ratio for interactions. My grandchildren heard awful things that my narcissist daughter said to me, and I haven’t seen them since. How do I handle my anxiety after catching my boss looking at me and listening in on a conversation I was having? What should I do if my wife told me that she doesn’t need sex anymore? We are in our mid-80s.How can I bring peace and wisdom to my mom who is depressed and grieving? An incident happened with my teenage half-sisters that has gone to court.