What do I tell my almost 18yo son who has been sending sexual text messages to his girlfriend? I am a people pleaser; can you help me when I run into issues with strong individuals? How can I get my wife to go out and do fun things with me despite our illnesses? She has fibromyalgia and I have COPD. I struggle with people pleasing and tremble when I get into a hard discussion with my wife. What can I do when the young woman I am sponsoring takes charge in our meetings and changes the subject when she doesn’t want to talk about something?