As a Christian, is it OK for me not to speak to my 93yo dad? He is controlling and tried to call the police on us for taking my mom with dementia to the hospital. My adult daughter won’t contact me and says my grandson regresses to a childlike state when he talks to me; where can I go with this? My husband might have lung cancer and has a very short temper. Since my dad died of lung cancer, how do I respond to him without panic or stress? How do I encourage my wife to take care of herself physically without offending her? The pandemic made it worse. My dad is having problems in his third marriage and likes to unload on me. How do I counsel him?