Dr. Sheri shares what we can learn from the hedgehog effect and prickly quills. My 32yo nephew lived with me and attempted suicide in my house; my daughter blames me and has cut off communication; what do I do? How can I deal with old patterns from a spouse who has addictions? We separated for a while and are back together. I am 56yo and my wife and I haven’t been intimate for more than a year because of her medical issues; what can we do to have sexual intimacy?