Interview with Sam Hodges, president of Church Initiative, to talk about DivorceCare and GriefShare. What should I do if my husband had an affair 17yrs ago and I just caught him looking at porn? Thank you for the scholarship to Emotional Freedom; it was great! My sister is in a gay relationship and our family is getting together at my house. How should we do the sleeping arrangements? I never had anyone to talk to as a child. Now that my daughter took her own life and my mom has dementia, it has been hard. Do I have an avoidant personality? My first husband was a porn addict and the second one was violent, so I’m happy to be by myself. New relationships have been disappointing.